Alright, so my " friend", told me just today, how when she comes to work, all the non black women want this one black guy at work. Well, my " friend" clearly does not want him. Well, this woman always looks at my "friend", when she is talking to this black guy. My freind told me how this woman looks at her all damn day along with another woman at work. Also, this black guy at works just smiles over the idea of all this occuring over his tired self. I am going to be real here, the reality is many women date black guys as a way to look down on black women. I go so many places in Los Angeles, and when a black man is with a white or Latino women they both look at me like I want to kill them. The best thing to do is to smile and keep being beautiful. I am insulted that anyone would think I was desperate enough to be angry...from this point on I am the happy black women......now just leave me alone and YES, HE IS BLACK AND YOU CAN HAVE HIM!!!! I want to be happy too, so why would I after 400 years of oppression want to be a mule for man, I am not asking for much, just do not assume, I do not love myself.....well, at work, this "freind " goes through this everyday, it is a sad situation, even more so the other educated black man who is also in the young proffesional age range, does not even protect her, he is also part of this put the black smart beautiful woman down syndrome.....what I missed about the civil rights era was that more black people would support each other at work and in life...now we are all out for ourselves, and even worst, the black man is also throwing rocks on you as well.....so once again.. YES, HE IS BLACK And YOU CAN HAVE HIM unless he can treat me like a human and with respect....and most of all other cultures value their women, I know love is color blind, but as a culture, black men should not participate in the deformation of the image of black women...and we should not be harrassed all the time.......
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